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If they only knew how successful I am!



External factors like wealth, career achievements, or fame don't always measure success. Often, it's a deeply personal and emotional experience that starts within ourselves. It's about writing our own story of success from the various events in our lives, including our traumas. Just like any other skill, focusing on this feeling of success and working on it can significantly enhance our lives. In this blog post, I explore how you to can harness these emotions and turn them into a powerful narrative of personal success.


Success as an Emotion


Success, like any other emotion, begins inside our body. It's a feeling that you can cultivate and focus on, just as we would with happiness or kindness. By consciously directing our attention toward our achievements, strengths, and growth, we can strengthen the sensation of success within ourselves. Embrace this feeling and use it as a source of motivation and inspiration in your daily life.

Writing Your Story of Success


Each of us has a unique life story shaped by various events and experiences. Our traumas, both big and small, can be the catalysts for personal growth and success. By acknowledging these experiences and embracing the lessons they offer, we can weave together a powerful narrative of our own success. This story is not about justifying or glorifying our past actions but about recognizing the journey we've taken and the strength we've gained along the way.

Turning Trauma into Triumph


Trauma can leave deep scars, but it can also be a powerful source of growth and transformation. Instead of letting trauma define or limit us, we can choose to use it as a stepping stone towards success. Look for the lessons and opportunities for growth in every traumatic experience. By embracing the emotions and insights that emerge from our pain, we can create a more profound and meaningful story of success.

Developing the Skill of Success


Cultivating the feeling of success and using it to rewrite our life story is a skill that can be honed over time. Like any other skill, it requires practice, dedication, and perseverance. Begin by setting aside time daily to reflect on your accomplishments, growth, and progress. Focus on the emotions associated with these experiences and allow them to fuel your motivation and drive. As you continue to practice this skill, you'll find that your life begins to reflect the story of success you've been cultivating within yourself.



Success is more than just a list of external achievements. It's an emotional journey that starts within ourselves and is shaped by the events and experiences of our lives, including our traumas. By focusing on the feeling of success and practicing the skill of weaving our life story, we can create a powerful narrative that drives us toward personal growth and fulfillment. So, take a moment to reflect on your journey, embrace your emotions, and write your unique story of success. If others only knew how successful you truly are, they would be amazed by your strength and resilience.

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